And it’s our job to make them feel safe and trust us. Their willingness to truly obey increases with the amount of trust they can feel for us. A slave needs to be insured again and again of our love and protection and that they are our most valuable property. At the same time it is important to find a right balance between being very firm and punitive and being caring, reassuring and loving. The more I submit him to my will, the happier he is.
And he’s just so happy to dedicate his life to my pleasure no matter what. On the other hand, he learned that it’s always and ONLY about my pleasure, nothing else. I learned that I just have to be firm with him, to dominate him to do whatever makes me happy, to dominate him in every way I want, to dare to stick to whatever I want. I’m can truly be who I am, I know what I want, I say whatever I want and my slave is fully committed to serve me in any way. It was always a negotiation to meet the needs of both.
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Before we used to argue, to compromise, our relationship was hard work and full of resentments. He’s a born slave who had trouble allowing him self to be what he really wants to be. For my partner it’s pretty much the same. I guess I’m a born Master, but was somehow constrained and ashamed to live to my full potential by society norms, by what other people would think etc. One year ago I decided to take the relationship to the next level and he’s my slave now. I’ve been always dominant and he’s been submissive. I’ve been living for 11 years with my bottom partner. Consequently, I take great pains to make sure that when I degrade my slave I degrade only its sense of egotistical pride rather than its sense of dignity.
My practice of mastery is therefore one which involves simultaneously lowering my slave as well as exalting it. As my prized possession, I expect my slave to regard itself as being of the highest value and worth and as being possessed of a superabundance of dignity. After all, my slave is my prized possession, the apple of my eye. Unlike such Masters, I'm concerned to instil in my slave both a sense of absolutle humility and selflessness as well as a sense of heightened dignity and worth. Many Masters, of course, actively seek to destroy any and all sense of dignity and self-esteem on the part of their slaves. Negative, or destructive, degradation serves to eat away at the slave's sense of basic dignity and worth. Positive, creative degradation serves to instil and reinforce in the slave's mind a sense of complete humility before its Master. Although as a Master I believe degradation is an important element in the Master/slave relationship, I believe that Masters should make certain that the degradation serves a creative rather than destructive purpose.
I think you've touched on something very important here. Next Chapter: The one question Male property must ask prospective Owners
Whichever way, as long as it’s fulfilling, it’s all good. The daily grind of being owned property and a full-time slave doesn’t have to be destructive (though I recognise for some slaves that’s what they want). My advice to any slaves who might stumble upon what I’ve posted here is to go into it only with a Master who cares about His property. Out of those who thrive on it, they may get fulfilment out of the daily degradation and only really find it degrading because they still remember a time when they were their own master and now they’re property.Īs always when we talk about an extreme it’s a good idea to temper it somewhat.
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Out of those some will thrive on such daily degradation and others might crack under it, not able to cope, being too much, too often. Or as the Bible puts it: “many are called, few are chosen”.Some might find that done daily, this is degrading. It would require probably a major life-changing almost permanent ego bypass.I can’t help imagining that this would take its toll over time, which is why so many can’t make the cross-over from freedom into full-time live-in consenting slavery. Imagine having to meet someone’s expectations and standards all the time and being punished/degraded for failing to meet them.Independence, self-determination and even ego and fate might become meaningless to such a slave. Imagine not being the key decision-maker in your life and imagine every single minute of every day being told what to wear, where to go, what to do and how with no rules being set in stone so as to comply with the demands of absolute power. Imagine having no real say in anything anymore.